I'm listening to a special on
purity balls on TLC, and finding it very creepy. It's quite disturbing how, in my opinion anyway, these girls are being brainwashed away from the possibility of their own freedom -- coerced into signing away their sexuality until they sign the marriage contract, forbidden from finding the mate that is really best for them, and so forth. And the way that some of the fathers look at their daughters sets off MAJOR alarms for me: perhaps I'm seeing something that's not there because of my own background of sexual abuse, or perhaps I'm more sensitive to cues that are actually present.
The girls they're interviewing sound so brainwashed, so scared of sex, and so oppressed. It's truly sad.